During the holidays Mike and I have this unofficial rule that we stop shopping for ourselves. The focus should be on presents for our loved ones.
Currently my work from home office feels like a stock room. Boxes filled with presents and stocking stuffers have taken over.
One of my favorite podcasts is Add to Cart with Kulap Vilaysack & SuChin Pak.
I’ve interacted with Kulap at Los Angeles Asian American Film Festival and have tried to not fan girl around her because I am such a big fan of her work in comedy. When I was a festival programmer I made sure to see her documentary Origin Story. It’s very good and is streaming on Prime Video. Go watch it!
Like many of my peers, I grew up watching SuChin Pak on MTV News. As a teen growing up with few Asian American role models, I latched on to seeing SuChin on my screen. So the fact that SuChin has acknowledged my presence on the internet brings me so much joy.
So why am I bringing up this podcast? Because the whole theme is shopping and adding to cart. My toxic trait is that I add to cart and it sits there for…who knows how long. This weeks newsletter is going to include all the things that I have added to cart and not purchased! Should you want to purchase them for your loved ones or even ME. Feel free! Jk jk. But honestly if you are someone in my life who is looking to get me something for the holidays. I’m making your life easier by showing you my carts!



Garbage Person Nameplate Necklace
My MCU is a combination of podcasts by writers, actors, and comedians I love. Garbage World formerly Bitch Sesh is one. Add to Cart as mentioned above. The Deep Dive is another. and How Did This Get Made rounds it all out.
The Garbage Person necklace is a collab with the10jewlery. I call myself a proud garbage person all the time. I fully acknowledge that I enjoy garbage tv. I am a scholar of the housewives/bravo oeuvre. This solid gold necklace has been on my wish list for a while. It is a hefty price point at $590. So I know it’ll be on my wish list for a while.
Terra XL Bath Bundle 4 Pack - Seaglass
This is a total Instagram ad thing. Have I bought towels from Sand Cloud? Absolutley. I love them. They dry so fast. They are the best at the beach. I am now at that age where I want towels and socks for Christmas. I will appreciate these gifts and cherish them!
Speaking of socks. Have you head of the magic of compression socks? Wow…I realize how old I sound. But seriously. They’re magic. I wear them on long flights, long road trips, and even at concerts! I basically live in compression leggings, but when I’m not wearing compression leggings, compression socks are my go to. Have I purchased these Wellow socks? No, because I normally just go to Amazon and get whatever is on sale. But if I were to treat myself I would get these Wellow socks in XLW because I am Filipino and have big ass calves.
Jewelry, towels, socks. I know…so adult. This is where I am at in my life. But I am also a kid at heart that appreciates a Target gift card, a Trader Joe’s gift card, or a membership to National Parks.
What is in your cart? How long do you leave things sitting in there? Are you also in need of towels and socks?